when these questions comes in our mind we start thinking that " have i trusted the right person " or "am i wrong at the part of judging people" . So for knowing these answers we struggle a lot , we start our involvement in there life' s and start doing all those petty things which in our view is also wrong but still we are confused but we just get trap into a situation where we feel like we have to get answers of our questions........ufffff......its a big mess. So to judge a good friend as we all know a very wise saying "a friend in need is friend in deed " so this phrase suits to all the questions we have in our mind and is the answer of all questions. When we make a friend we have some really close and special friends on whom we rely ...... but some times we start hesitating & start doubting on our friends......... & that is wrong if u have a good or we say "BEST "friend it is a temporary phase that we start thinking that we will loose our friend & because of such thing we do some petty mistake which can create distances in a strong relation. To judge a good friend the best way is to just wait for a phase of life where u need them & u require there support . Mark the point that whosoever will be there for u in your bad phase is the great friend of your's because after our parents we have those friends who will always be there for us both bad as well as good phase. So guys always think positive & just let the things go as they go & we can solve each & every mystery of such a mysterious life where we don't even know what is the next mystery we have to solve have faith in god & rest on the destiny..........